"Forgive and Forget"

      So the question on my mind right now is,"Can you ever really forgive if you can't forget?" The offended is usually reluctant to forgive,especially if you know the other is never really going to change. How many times have you heard "I'm sorry?" Men tend to say that a lot, even after the fact they just ripped your heart out and threw it over their shoulder. Yet women seem to forgive them just because they said those two words,"I'm sorry." How about not messing up in the first place. Don't get me wrong forgivness is great but if something hurts you so bad and you really can't stop thinking about it, yet ignore the pain and rage, are you really forgiving someone? When did it start being okay for a man to cheat,lie and betray and we just let it go because he apologized? We as women have worked hard just to be equal and yet we still let men hurt us so bad to where we make ourselves sick. Ladies we all let men do this to us. Let's all sit down and write down all the times they had to say, "I'm sorry";and we took them back. Oh, but we love them so much.Why love someone so much more then you love yourself ? Why say someones name more times a day than you would ever say your own? I listened to so many devastating  stories alot of my own. Its like a classic remake everytime. Every girl has been through the same thing at one time.After he messes up were expected to let it go cause its the past,really?Its not fair to stay in a relationship with someone whom you know you can't truly forgive.This includes thinking about it everyday or just ever bringing up his douchebag ways. Just deal with the fact that your with an asshole and he will never change or leave his sorry ass.At the end of every relationship after all the tears and phone call after phone call, what's it all really worth?


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